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Religious Ceremony - of a particular denomination (e.g. Catholic, Jewish, Muslim, etc.) or combination of denominations; characterized by formal or defining religious elements/rituals/traditions from one or more denominations. Non-Denominational Ceremony - a non-denominational ceremony is not of a particular denomination. Interfaith Ceremony - is also known as a multi-faith or interdenominational. A combination or blend of religions ranging from only some religion to being entirely religious. Spiritual Ceremony - "spiritual" means different things to different people. Most often, in a ceremony context, it is either the religious, sacred or divine feeling or essence underneath a religious element, ritual or tradition. Often it uses beautiful, inspiring words but is universal and stays away from any particular religion. Civil/Non-Religious - No religion in the ceremony whatsoever, including no prayer (although a couple may have an invocation or poem that would be as meaningful to them as a prayer would be to a religious person). It is also known as a court house, notary, JP or Justice of the Peace ceremony. Kindly note that a non-religious or civil ceremony can have absolutely as much meaningfulness, warmth and heart as any other type of ceremony. Non-religious or civil means no religion, but not "no love". Multi-Cultural Ceremony - similar to interfaith except it involves combining or blending of a couple's cultures and heritage; may or may not have any religious elements, can be civil or non-religious, or very religious. Unity Candle Ceremony - consists of the lighting of one candle from two separate candles held by the bride and groom. this ceremony symbolizes the union of two lives into one. Creative variations can be added to the ceremony, such as the mothers of the bride and groom, or any designated member of the wedding party, lighting the candles after they walk down the isle or during the ceremony. The couple may keep the candle. Some couples like to re-light the candle each year on their anniversary. Sand Ceremony - the sharing of one's love is beautifully displayed for everyone to see, especially when a sand ceremony is chosen for your wedding day. Sand colors that uniquely define the bride and groom are separately contained in two glass vases. During the wedding ceremony, usually prior to the wedding vows, the two sand colors are poured together into a heart shaped unity bottle, thus symbolizing the creation of two becoming one. Blessing of the Rings - the wedding ring is the visible sign of an inward bond that unites two loyal hearts in endless love. It is a seal of the vows made to one another. It symbolizes living together in unity, love and happiness for the rest of their lives. Breaking of the Glass - the breaking of the glass at the end of a wedding ceremony usually is reserved for Jewish ceremonies. However, it is a beautiful ending to any wedding. Breaking the glass services to remind us of two very important aspects of a marriage. The bride and groom and everyone should consider these marriage vows as an "Irrevocable Act", just as permanent and final as the breaking of the glass is unchangeable. The breaking of the glass also is a warning of the "Frailty" of a marriage. That sometimes a single thoughtless act, breech of trust, or infidelity can damage a marriage in ways that are very difficult to undo, just as it would be so difficult to undo the breaking of this glass. Knowing that this marriage is permanent, the bride and groom should strive to show each other the love and respect befitting their spouse and love of their life. Children Services - Many couples are remarrying and want to include their children in the ceremony. there are numerous ways this may be done. Ask me about the "Family Medallion Ceremony". Flower Ceremony - this is a family and friends ceremony. Each designed person comes up and places a different flower in a vase to create a garden of love. Hands Ceremony - a recent favorite of many couples. A three to five minute ceremony in which the officiate uses the phrasing, "These are the hands that..." in order to create a preliminary set of vows, although this is often used in place of traditional vows. Honoring the Mothers - a brief reading is done and then the bride and or groom present their mother (s) with a small gift, usually flowers. Silent Blessing and Moment of Remembrance - both are small blessings/readings honoring the deceased. They may include specific names or a general statement. Ribbon Ceremony/Hand Fastening - the ancient Celts tied the hands of the bride and groom. The official loosely binds the hands together. They remain that way for the rest of the ceremony. Rose Ceremony - a symbolic ceremony using roses, the symbol of love. The couples who have chosen this have described it as an extremely beautiful and moving ceremony. Support from Families Service - parents become part of the introduction to the vows. The official asks who brings this couple to be wed. Wine or Water Ceremony - the couple share a cup of wine or water while the official says a blessing and a reading. Blessing to the Four Directions - a long time ago, people believed the human soul shared characteristics with all things celestial. This prayer service designates the four points on a compass with human virtues. Jumping the Broom - there are many different versions of this ritual which involves the couple jumping over the broom. Essentially, the jumping of the broom is a symbol of sweeping away of the old and welcoming the new, or a symbol of a new beginning. Bride & Grooms Choice - do you have your own wedding ideas? I will incorporate anything you want into the ceremony is that it is the most magical event of your life. Unity Candle Ceremony - consists of the lighting of one candle from two separate candles held by the bride and groom. this ceremony symbolizes the union of two lives into one. Creative variations can be added to the ceremony, such as the mothers of the bride and groom, or any designated member of the wedding party, lighting the candles after they walk down the isle or during the ceremony. The couple may keep the candle. Some couples like to re-light the candle each year on their anniversary. Sand Ceremony - the sharing of one's love is beautifully displayed for everyone to see, especially when a sand ceremony is chosen for your wedding day. Sand colors that uniquely define the bride and groom are separately contained in two glass vases. During the wedding ceremony, usually prior to the wedding vows, the two sand colors are poured together into a heart shaped unity bottle, thus symbolizing the creation of two becoming one. Blessing of the Rings - the wedding ring is the visible sign of an inward bond that unites two loyal hearts in endless love. It is a seal of the vows made to one another. It symbolizes living together in unity, love and happiness for the rest of their lives. Breaking of the Glass - the breaking of the glass at the end of a wedding ceremony usually is reserved for Jewish ceremonies. However, it is a beautiful ending to any wedding. Breaking the glass services to remind us of two very important aspects of a marriage. The bride and groom and everyone should consider these marriage vows as an "Irrevocable Act", just as permanent and final as the breaking of the glass is unchangeable. The breaking of the glass also is a warning of the "Frailty" of a marriage. That sometimes a single thoughtless act, breech of trust, or infidelity can damage a marriage in ways that are very difficult to undo, just as it would be so difficult to undo the breaking of this glass. Knowing that this marriage is permanent, the bride and groom should strive to show each other the love and respect befitting their spouse and love of their life. Children Services - Many couples are remarrying and want to include their children in the ceremony. there are numerous ways this may be done. Ask me about the "Family Medallion Ceremony". Flower Ceremony - this is a family and friends ceremony. Each designed person comes up and places a different flower in a vase to create a garden of love. Hands Ceremony - a recent favorite of many couples. A three to five minute ceremony in which the officiate uses the phrasing, "These are the hands that..." in order to create a preliminary set of vows, although this is often used in place of traditional vows. Honoring the Mothers - a brief reading is done and then the bride and or groom present their mother(s) with a small gift, usually flowers. Silent Blessing and Moment of Remembrance - both are small blessings/readings honoring the deceased. They may include specific names or a general statement. Ribbon Ceremony/Hand Fastening - the ancient Celts tied the hands of the bride and groom. The official loosely binds the hands together. They remain that way for the rest of the ceremony. Rose Ceremony - a symbolic ceremony using roses, the symbol of love. The couples who have chosen this have described it as an extremely beautiful and moving ceremony. Support from Families Service - parents become part of the introduction to the vows. The official asks who brings this couple to be wed. Wine or Water Ceremony - the couple share a cup of wine or water while the official says a blessing and a reading. Blessing to the Four Directions - a long time ago, people believed the human soul shared characteristics with all things celestial. This prayer service designates the four points on a compass with human virtues. Jumping the Broom - there are many different versions of this ritual which involves the couple jumping over the broom. Essentially, the jumping of the broom is a symbol of sweeping away of the old and welcoming the new, or a symbol of a new beginning. Bride & Grooms Choice - do you have your own wedding ideas? I will incorporate anything you want into the ceremony is that it is the most magical event of your life. |
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- The real act of marriage takes place in the heart, not in the ballroom or church or synagogue. It's a choice you make not just on your wedding day, but over and over again and that choice is reflected in the way you treat your husband or wife - |